DL Hugley: "The Gay Community are becoming bullies" (2022)

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- He also says that no-one is immune to jokes.

- Said the LGBT community moved forward not because they were activists but because of Ellen, Will & Grace etc. in which people laughed with and at them.

- In regards to transgenders, he said if they want people to fight for them, then they should fight for others aswell.

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by Anonymousreply 173December 22, 2018 9:18 AM

Ole man needs to apologize for the tattoos, gold chain, chin bush and clunky-ass eyewear.

by Anonymousreply 1December 19, 2018 1:13 PM

Where do I find the video he made defending Michael Richards ?

Since when is fighting back against people who abuse, mock and demean us bullying ?

by Anonymousreply 2December 19, 2018 1:14 PM

r2 abuses, mocks, and demeans anybody who didn't vote for Bill Clinton's wife.

by Anonymousreply 3December 19, 2018 1:16 PM

He has real issues with gay people. Because gay people were told to fuck off for defending ourselves (again), and we did fuck off (again), he’s really driving that nail in. He’s reminding us of our place. The next person who calls us f-ggots or makes AIDS jokes will tell us to fuck off and we will. And, DL Hughley will remind us of our place again.

by Anonymousreply 4December 19, 2018 1:26 PM

I once overheard two people having an argument.

One said, "I won't let your logic trump my feelings!"

That's Hughley.

by Anonymousreply 5December 19, 2018 1:30 PM

Guess black does crack. He is not aging too well.

by Anonymousreply 6December 19, 2018 1:31 PM

He's been messy for a while now. Of the "Kings of Comedy" (Bernie Mac, Steve Harvey, Cedric the Entertainer, and Hugely), he's the only one who has to desperately grasp at anything in hopes of being relevant and getting a job in showbiz. Drugs?

by Anonymousreply 7December 19, 2018 1:35 PM

The gay community needs to ignore rather than react. Separate.

by Anonymousreply 8December 19, 2018 1:37 PM

Just discovered Kevin Hart is a close friend of the fucked up bastard Michael Vick. Ugh anyone who defends him needs to go down.

by Anonymousreply 9December 19, 2018 1:41 PM

And it wasn't just gays reacting to KH's comments. People who are not into child abuse think he is an asshole, as well as people who love & support gays and gay rights. Fuck DLH AND KH.

by Anonymousreply 10December 19, 2018 2:00 PM

I don't know her.

by Anonymousreply 11December 19, 2018 2:10 PM

Isn't he downlow anyway?

by Anonymousreply 12December 19, 2018 2:13 PM

"Said the LGBT community moved forward not because they were activists but because of Ellen, Will & Grace etc. in which people laughed with and at them."

Well, that comment alone shows his incredible ignorance.

by Anonymousreply 13December 19, 2018 2:17 PM

Never heard of him. He's irrelevant. Hope to never hear of him again.

Garbage in, garbage out.

by Anonymousreply 14December 19, 2018 2:18 PM

Nobody cares people have moved on from this. Well not the OP. Some people just love the division and drama so much.

Many of these OPs are abusers.

by Anonymousreply 15December 19, 2018 2:20 PM

I remember when he had a show on CNN... one time he said something along the lines of he "does not agree" with homosexuality.

by Anonymousreply 16December 19, 2018 2:23 PM

R15 Like you.

by Anonymousreply 17December 19, 2018 2:24 PM

r3 and r15 are Russian trolls.

by Anonymousreply 18December 19, 2018 2:38 PM

[quote]he said if they want people to fight for them, then they should fight for others as well.

That’s good advice for homophobic black people.

by Anonymousreply 19December 19, 2018 2:40 PM

This is just an opportunity for him to go after gay people, R16 and he can because it’s socially acceptable.

by Anonymousreply 20December 19, 2018 2:43 PM

All this clown fucking cares about is whether his & his hateful homies' exposed/highlighted homophobia will hurt their money in-flow. Fuck them all.

by Anonymousreply 21December 19, 2018 3:11 PM

Hughley is getting crazier and crazier as the years go on. I don't know if he's just making money by catering to right-wingers or if he's always been this big of a nutcase.

by Anonymousreply 22December 19, 2018 3:59 PM

Whomsdtve is this ? Why do we care what he thinks? What has he done noteworthy?

by Anonymousreply 23December 19, 2018 4:06 PM

The real bullies are the ones who are vocal about defending gay stereotypes rather than gay PEOPLE.

by Anonymousreply 24December 19, 2018 4:09 PM

[quote]What has he done noteworthy?


by Anonymousreply 25December 19, 2018 4:10 PM

The word is "whomst," R23.

by Anonymousreply 26December 19, 2018 4:15 PM

The gay community must put all the offenders against us onto a rocket and shoot them into the sun!

by Anonymousreply 27December 19, 2018 4:19 PM

I've seen more racial division in the gay community than at any point in my lifetime. It used be that being gay was enough to bring people of different races together, but now people identify first as their race. It's messed up because gays are still marginalized no matter what their race, but now we have all this intersectional nonsense that's just dividing people even further.

by Anonymousreply 28December 19, 2018 4:24 PM

He’s not aging well at all.

by Anonymousreply 29December 19, 2018 4:27 PM

[quote]I've seen more racial division in the gay community than at any point in my lifetime.

The racial division and racial-identification and race-baiting became much more prominent in all communities during Obama’s Presidency.

by Anonymousreply 30December 19, 2018 4:28 PM

He's a shit for brains hypocrite He went after Roseanne and supported her firing over a joke too.

by Anonymousreply 31December 19, 2018 4:29 PM

In the English speaking world you have an obsession with the word community. We are not a community. I don't know you and you don't know me to be called community. We are people with a trait that the population vilifies and dehumanises to deny us our rights as human beings. Calling everything community brings wrong assumption that people a homogeneous that they live as closed group of people which is false.

I empathise with other people who are hmosexual like me and want equal rights for them all across the globe, but that doesn't make me community with anybody.

Homosexual people are not community; we are people.

by Anonymousreply 32December 19, 2018 4:39 PM

R32 No, we were a community but that community has been fractured.

by Anonymousreply 33December 19, 2018 4:42 PM

He's clearly turning Lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 34December 19, 2018 4:43 PM

R30: Obama nothing, this is Jane Elliot and her bullshit about how everyone should just drop everything for black liberation to the exclusion of any other marginalized group's liberation.

by Anonymousreply 35December 19, 2018 4:43 PM
(Video) DL HUGHLEY GED SECTION: #LizCheney | What is happening to the Republican Party? [#trumpism ]

Gays have to stand up for ourselves because nobody else will stand with us. Nobody.

by Anonymousreply 36December 19, 2018 4:46 PM

What is the agenda of the people who claim that we are not a community? Is it because of the whole masculine vs feminine or Gay Pride and how I’m not one of *those people?

by Anonymousreply 37December 19, 2018 4:54 PM

Typical myopic H'wood has-been can only see a culture that's not his from TV shows. Oh, he's a fucking idiot, too.

by Anonymousreply 38December 19, 2018 4:57 PM

On his new CNN show D.L. Hughley Breaks the News, D.L. Hughley invited national spokesgay Dan Savage to speak about Proposition 8. Hughley makes it clear that he does not support gay marriage or “the gay lifestyle” but that he also doesn’t support the government’s interfering with its citizens’ affairs (in the way that Prop 8 did). It’s an interesting discussion.

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by Anonymousreply 39December 19, 2018 5:03 PM

[quote]This is just an opportunity for him to go after gay people, [R16] and he can because it’s socially acceptable.

This sums it up.

by Anonymousreply 40December 19, 2018 5:06 PM

Translation: Black people are the only ones who deserve dignity and to get uppity.

All of Hughley’s arguments could be made against black people, but his kind flip out at the “n” word, blackface, Sambos, piccaninnies and other “jokes nobody’s immune from.”

Fuck this hypocrite — the black community has a homophobia problem.

by Anonymousreply 41December 19, 2018 5:19 PM

[quote]the black community has a homophobia problem.

That’s not news to anyone.

by Anonymousreply 42December 19, 2018 5:23 PM

R41: Your point stands, but we can refrain from "his kind" and just use black people. We can be just a little better than that, just a little.

by Anonymousreply 43December 19, 2018 6:36 PM

r41 is right.

Black people always refuse to laugh at themselves when white comedians and artists talk about racial issues. On the contrary, they analyze every sentence, every word spoken by the "whitie", in search of something that is "problematic" and by which he or she can be condemned and marginalized from the public milieu.

Take, for example, blackface: why has it become such a sin for a white person to simply put on dark make-up on his or her face? Because black people react (or, one might say, over-react) to anything that might be construed as a joke at their expense.

And black people who suddenly take libertarian positions when it comes to black homophobia, saying that homophobia is an integral part of comedy-making, never say anything on the excessive and violent reactions from the black community to "racist" jokes by white celebrities.

And by the way, why should we keep pretending that blackface is a such a heinous act of bigotry, when straight blacks still find humor in gay-bashing stories, including stories (like the one told by Kevin Hart) in which parents beat their sons for thinking they might be gay?

I would like to draw attention from this DJ Hughey or whatever, that "Ellen" and "Will & Grace" never tried to find humor in the mere fact that gay adults and effeminate boys are victims of homophobic violence. I do not doubt that it is possible for comedians to address this question (and tragic issues in general) in a way that is satisfactory from the point of view of comedy (and its general purpose, to make people laugh), without having a negative effect in the ability of different communities to coexist without violence. But for that, it would be necessary for the comedian to be sympathetic to the cause of the people who suffer homophobic violence, and this does not apply to Kevin Hart. On the contrary, Kevin Hart's jokes are told from the point of view of a father who practices homophobic violence against his own son and even the latter's peers.

Any kind of comedy made from this point of view would have the opposite effect of "Ellen" and "Will & Grace" - it would have the effect of justifying the kind of violence described. Which is much worse than such things as "blackface".

by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2018 7:19 PM

r43 I took that as militant, not black-i.e., not necessarily referring to black people generally.

Was that naive of me?

by Anonymousreply 45December 19, 2018 7:19 PM

I thinkmost homophobic black people think homosexuality is a choice hence their complex of superiority thinking homophobia cannot be compared to racism.

The white man gave them too much bible and this is what you're reaping.

by Anonymousreply 46December 19, 2018 8:14 PM

Most blacks are bible-banging Fundamentalists.

Today’s Democrats should really find different groups to cater to... rather than blacks, Muslims, and Trans.

by Anonymousreply 47December 19, 2018 8:17 PM

"Nobody cares people have moved on from this. Well not the OP. Some people just love the division and drama so much."

Hughley is the one who can't move on.

by Anonymousreply 48December 19, 2018 8:18 PM

Ann Coulter recently made a point about that, R47.

by Anonymousreply 49December 19, 2018 8:45 PM

I remember a stand up comedy show on TV that was hosted by Louie Anderson. Hugley was on when he was just starting to get known and Anderson pronounced his name "Hugh-Glee" Hugley came out and said, "I'd like to thank Louie for pronouncing my name wrong. It's actually Hugh-Lee" I immediately hated him.

by Anonymousreply 50December 19, 2018 8:49 PM


by Anonymousreply 51December 19, 2018 8:51 PM

By his logic Amos & Andy did more to advance black rights than Rosa Parks or MLK.

by Anonymousreply 52December 19, 2018 8:52 PM

r50 he doesn't correct the majority of black radio hosts who interview him and use the pronunciation Anderson did. Unless you've mixed up how he pronounces it.

by Anonymousreply 53December 19, 2018 8:59 PM

R47/R49: Found the stupid bigots hijacking the thread. Muslims and Trans people have NOTHING to do with this. Get out!

by Anonymousreply 54December 19, 2018 9:07 PM

R53 I've always heard him pronounce it Hugh-Lee in interviews.

by Anonymousreply 55December 19, 2018 9:27 PM


Your post seems to imply that Black People *do* have something to do with this.

by Anonymousreply 56December 19, 2018 9:30 PM

R56: We're talking about black homophobia and certain high-ranking elements of black America that are defending it. My point stands. You follow Ann Coulter, which makes you sub-human trash. And the other poster is still a bigot, by declaring a major political party must abandon all 3 groups because of who they are. Don't fuck with me little boy, it's not my first time at the rodeo.

by Anonymousreply 57December 19, 2018 9:33 PM

White evangelicals hates gays but somehow blacks are the only homophobic group in America.

by Anonymousreply 58December 19, 2018 10:53 PM

Yes, r47.

by Anonymousreply 59December 19, 2018 10:55 PM

Of course some of the posters on here agree with Coulter. Why don’t you all condemn her homophobia? DL is an idiot but he isn’t representative of the black community.

by Anonymousreply 60December 19, 2018 10:58 PM

All this is because the gays don't want to unite under a common identity. Gays of all races should come together so they could have a voice again. This intersectional shit is just turning people against eachother.

by Anonymousreply 61December 19, 2018 10:59 PM

[quote]the black community has a homophobia problem.

And yet it's the white people who are voting in majority numbers for Republicans to take away your rights. But you racist queens will spread your ass cheeks for any piece of redneck filth to stick it in you because "They're hot". And because you're still looking for the white jock bully who called you a faggot in high school to like you.

THAT's the problem.

by Anonymousreply 62December 19, 2018 11:05 PM

Yes r62.

by Anonymousreply 63December 19, 2018 11:07 PM

R62 Blacks don't vote for Democrats because they care about gay rights. Not all republicans are homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 64December 19, 2018 11:15 PM

R64: No, but the knock-on effect benefits us. And I don't give a shit about individual Republicans, the party they vote for has the knock-on effect of hurting us. Simple as that. I'm so sorry you're not smart enough to understand that.

R61: People are always going to prioritize identity, always have. That was well before intersectionality became a thing. This is not new. What is sad more than anything is the expectation from certain high-ranking black Americans in entertainment that we need to prioritize their liberation over anyone else's, and gay liberation can be ignored because of Leviticus (as though there are no black gays and lesbians who are hurt by what Kevin Hart says).

At the same time, since black Americans are adamant they won't vote based on issues of sex and gender but rather race and class, they are not the enemy that white Bible Bangers are, as they are dedicated to our eradication.

by Anonymousreply 65December 19, 2018 11:37 PM

Blacks and Republicans arw virtually equal on gay rights support.

by Anonymousreply 66December 20, 2018 12:44 AM

Better a gay friendly Republican than a homophobic black Democrat. (And it IS for the best to keep Muslims and Transfolk out of this discussion.)

(Video) DL Hughley LEFT The Industry SPEECHLESS BY Revealing This Info, Meek Mill RESPONDS

And, yes, to reiterate the basic point: He's only allowed to get away with saying that because he's black and thus won't be called out on it.

by Anonymousreply 67December 20, 2018 8:40 AM

That’s why its best to go with a gay friendly Republican (white) as opposed to a black Democrat because gays will not challenge a black Democrat.

by Anonymousreply 68December 20, 2018 11:28 AM

If the comedian was white and the joke about violonce against a son just for dating a black girl, he would be the first one calling boicots. Hypocrite.

by Anonymousreply 69December 20, 2018 12:36 PM

So he is in support of nigger jokes and blackface??? Because, you know, racist is just how some people were raised/believe, therefore they are entitled to their beliefs? How about inter racial marriage bans or housing covenants that forbid minorities from owning houses in white neighborhoods? Cool with that, DL? The hypocricy of people like this is astounding!

by Anonymousreply 70December 20, 2018 12:42 PM

R67: No. Lisa Murkowski still votes to make McConnell the Majority Leader. In a legislative setting, you vote for the black homophobe to make Schumer or Pelosi or anyone else the leader. The beauty is, that just about all black elected officials, have made sure to support gay rights, so this issue is rapidly becoming a hypothetical.

by Anonymousreply 71December 20, 2018 1:52 PM

Meanwhile, Black people got offended by this tweet:

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by Anonymousreply 72December 20, 2018 2:15 PM

I don't know if that's heartening: Black politicians don't really represent their communities and the party elites will keep them in line anyway.

Is that sustainable?

I worry.

by Anonymousreply 73December 20, 2018 2:48 PM

Most gay people don’t think gayness is there primary identity, for a host of reasons. A certain subset of mainly white urban middle and older gay men think it is, but most bi and gay men do not prioritize their sexual identity. Heck, many wholly disavow themselves as “gay.”

by Anonymousreply 74December 20, 2018 2:50 PM

PEOPLE are bullies.

People who say this stuff are only trying to justify their homophobia. You can't just pick a common negative trait and assign them to a particular division in mankind. What an irrelevant video.

by Anonymousreply 75December 20, 2018 2:59 PM

They believe in a shining white god.

by Anonymousreply 76December 20, 2018 3:02 PM

It should be true that no one is immune from jokes but white. straight males seem to be

by Anonymousreply 77December 20, 2018 3:04 PM

R73: What the fuck are you talking about? They are pro-gay, which benefits us, the gays. Black voters also don't vote on abortion and gays, they vote on economic issues primarily, so it doesn't matter on this front. Again, that benefits us. Cut the crap.

by Anonymousreply 78December 20, 2018 3:10 PM

[quote]They are pro-gay


by Anonymousreply 79December 20, 2018 3:16 PM

R79: Penis.

by Anonymousreply 80December 20, 2018 3:22 PM

[quote]Blacks and Republicans arw virtually equal on gay rights support.

And Republicans are mostly white, and there’s more of them than all black people in America. So why isn’t homophobia seen as a white problem?

by Anonymousreply 81December 20, 2018 3:48 PM

Yeah, the difference is Republicans support candidates like Roy Moore and Trump and black people don't.

by Anonymousreply 82December 20, 2018 3:50 PM

R81 Homophobia is seen as a white problem. White Republicans for sure. It just doesn't help that minorities such as blacks and hispanics are also generally homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 83December 20, 2018 3:51 PM

It is seen as a white problem, and there are hundreds of thousands of threads about it here. But, again, challenging black homophobia is problematic and difficult for the gay community because of the of obsessive whataboutism plus—gays seem apathetic towards non-white homophobia. Because gays seem to fail to challenge blacks (or Muslims) about their homophobia most of the time, I’d prefer white Republicans because gays are more galvanized against white Republicans (or white homophobes) as opposed to blacks, Muslims, etc.

by Anonymousreply 84December 20, 2018 3:57 PM

[R2] Since when is fighting back against people who abuse, mock and demean us bullying ?

It becomes bullying when it has an effect on the abusers. They're the first to point it out.

by Anonymousreply 85December 20, 2018 4:09 PM

[quote]I’d prefer white Republicans

Like this one?

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by Anonymousreply 86December 20, 2018 4:13 PM

[QUOTE]Where do I find the video he made defending Michael Richards ?

Michael Richards wasn’t admonished for making jokes. The jokes stopped and he went on a rant screaming the N-word after his set bombed.

by Anonymousreply 87December 20, 2018 4:18 PM

The differing treatment of Joy Reid and Megyn Kelly is stunning.

[quote] Most gay people don’t think gayness is there primary identity, for a host of reasons. A certain subset of mainly white urban middle and older gay men think it is, but most bi and gay men do not prioritize their sexual identity. Heck, many wholly disavow themselves as “gay.”

That's because those older men fought alongside other racial minorities for gay rights when gays didn't have any rights or protections. No one can deny that the country has become more obsessed with race recently. Too many people think the issue of gay rights has been settled but that couldn't be further from the truth.

by Anonymousreply 88December 20, 2018 4:19 PM

I believe that all minorities have bullies in their midst...that includes people of color, women and the GLB(T) community.

by Anonymousreply 89December 20, 2018 4:20 PM

r87, Kevin's rant about beating gay kids didn't seem like much of a joke, either.

by Anonymousreply 90December 20, 2018 4:28 PM

DL Hugley: Hey mother, I am only in 4rth grade and I have the biggest dick in class. Is it because I am the only black person in the class?

Mother: No Hugley, it is because you are 19

by Anonymousreply 91December 20, 2018 4:45 PM

There is plenty of energy directed towards homophobia from the right -- which is good -- but the problem is the silence and/or excuses when it comes to blacks.

by Anonymousreply 92December 20, 2018 4:51 PM

And, it’s concerning, R92.

by Anonymousreply 93December 20, 2018 4:53 PM

Hart & Hugley fell out the ugly tree and hit every fuckin' branch on the way down!

by Anonymousreply 94December 20, 2018 4:58 PM

Racist freepers all over this thread.

F and F and close accordingly.

by Anonymousreply 95December 20, 2018 5:08 PM

R95 FUCK YOU and get off this GAY message board . That is all

by Anonymousreply 96December 20, 2018 5:12 PM

R96 is right. This is a GAY message board.

Easy to forget most of the time.

by Anonymousreply 97December 20, 2018 5:14 PM

I have R 95 blocked already but he is exactly why gay people don’t fight non-white homophobia. Black and Muslim elected officials are going to be a problem for the gay community. And, black gay people, I don’t how many support gay rights, but my guess is not many.

by Anonymousreply 98December 20, 2018 5:16 PM

R95, Are you black?

by Anonymousreply 99December 20, 2018 5:18 PM

Probably one of the church ladies from LSA.

[quote]black gay people, I don’t how many support gay rights, but my guess is not many

Are the white gays turning up their noses at BBC on the apps a contributing factor?

by Anonymousreply 100December 20, 2018 5:21 PM

Do Dataloungers go to Lip Stick Alley and harrass them?

by Anonymousreply 101December 20, 2018 5:23 PM
(Video) DL Hughley Responds To Bishop Whitehead $1 Million Dollar Offer To A Boxing Match "You're A Scammer"

The reaction over there would be funny, if Dataloungers went there and posted gay porn GIFs indiscriminately.

by Anonymousreply 102December 20, 2018 5:25 PM

Gay does not equal human shit. And your kind doesn't talk for anyone.

by Anonymousreply 103December 20, 2018 5:26 PM

And don't soil your white sheets trying to come up with some clever response. We're done.

by Anonymousreply 104December 20, 2018 5:27 PM

“FFing all the homophobes” - Datalounger at Lip Stick Alley (which is every poster on that site). It’s a black Stormfront site.

by Anonymousreply 105December 20, 2018 5:29 PM

R88: Because race issues have been brought to the fore by police brutality and the encouragement of ethno-racial hate crimes by Trump. Are you arguing we should ignore these very troubling issues?

R92: Except no one on here has excused it. The only people that have excused Hart are black comedians, many of whom are old and washed up. So your point doesn't stand.

R103: Here at DL, we use R and the number of the poster we are responding to, dear. No one here knows who are you talking to or what are you talking about.

by Anonymousreply 106December 20, 2018 5:34 PM

Blacks and Muslims know gays fear them that’s why they say and do the shit they do. It was absolutely insane that Minnesota voted for a Somalian. Good lord.

by Anonymousreply 107December 20, 2018 5:49 PM

But she is besties with Datalounge darling Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez!

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by Anonymousreply 108December 20, 2018 5:53 PM

“We’ll get those gays”.

by Anonymousreply 109December 20, 2018 5:57 PM

Fuck him and his stanky ass.

by Anonymousreply 110December 20, 2018 5:59 PM

The reason a lot of gays focus on calling out black homophobia is because black homophobia is directly in many of our backyards: urban environments.

Whites in our major cities are largely liberal and not at odds with us over gay rights issues. Poor blacks (and other minority groups) ARE so I don't know why people act so surprised when many of us get pissy/upset over the minority double-standard when it comes to homophobia. The "whatabout!!!" arguments about white deplorables in the square states doesn't resonate because 1. WE KNOW and 2. we moved away from those towns for a reason.

Gays and lesbians MOVED to large cities and created concentrated communities to keep away from the local politics of rural, white, religious-based homophobia. Poor white homophobia isn't our "problematic" issue in our big, blue cities. Blacks obsessed with hating whites/gays (and SJWs will always argue that gays = white with white privilege) has a more direct impact on the local level than voters in the collar counties and beyond do.

We left the white rural homophobes. We can't leave the urban black ones.

by Anonymousreply 111December 20, 2018 6:39 PM

Good post, R111.

by Anonymousreply 112December 20, 2018 6:44 PM

But for many or most people on the globe, homophobia will never be problematic or disturbing because homosexuality is at root about sex, a type of sex that violates their most sacred religious and moral beliefs. That will not change.

by Anonymousreply 113December 20, 2018 6:56 PM

Excellent post r111.

That used to be the case in Britain too, but the attitudes of white British people towards homosexuality have changed dramatically over the last 20 years, helped by the fact that most Brits are secular and/or atheists. Sure, once in a while a gay couple will be turned away from some remote B+B, or an evangelical registrar will refuse to perform a gay wedding, but for the most part religion plays no role in the lives of white Brits.

As things stand, wherever you are in the UK, the source of homophobic abuse is far more likely to be muslim, black, eastern european or gypsy. London is now the most homophobic place in the country, despite the huge gay community there.

by Anonymousreply 114December 20, 2018 7:25 PM

If anyone doubts the degree of homophobia at Lipstick Alley or any other urban gossip site, I suggest that you visit and make a post in which you say that blacks and gays should have each others' backs since they are both marginalized groups.

You won't believe your eyes.

by Anonymousreply 115December 20, 2018 7:29 PM

Yet they're "forgiving people of faith". Pffffft.

by Anonymousreply 116December 20, 2018 7:36 PM

Not wanting to hijack the thread... but try suggesting on r/GenderCritical than women and gay men should support each other too.

They hate us.

There is no 'your struggle is my struggle'. They don't support Trump, but they don't support us either.

by Anonymousreply 117December 20, 2018 7:40 PM

We uppity.

by Anonymousreply 118December 20, 2018 7:41 PM

Defends a comedian who jokes about bullying his kids into being/"acting" straight, encourages violence towards children perceived to be gay. Calls gay people bullies. Of course, heterosexual society and several self-flagellating gays nod in agreement.

by Anonymousreply 119December 20, 2018 7:44 PM

R117 Who is “they?”

by Anonymousreply 120December 20, 2018 7:44 PM

The 'gender critical' feminists who range from conservative Christian ladies to the more radical lesbian side, who have invaded these forums to preach about gay male misogyny and transgenderism. Surely you've noticed them.

by Anonymousreply 121December 20, 2018 7:46 PM

R117 I stopped involving myself in the radfem/gender crit discussions when I realized a lot of them, about half, were homophobes. They want us to speak out about the trans issue eroding women's rights but consider us part of the oppressive patriarchal system. Large amounts of them just transitioned from campaigning against gay marriage/adoption straight into the transgender issue, which is sad, because I actually see how it negatively impacts gay rights and women's rights. They REALLY hate us for surrogacy (even though heterosexual couples are the primary users of surrogates) and the idea of a child being raised without a mother, period. I suspect all the old "drag kids" threads are being bumped here by one of them, which is another thing that drives them nuts. Drag queens reading to kids, also...

by Anonymousreply 122December 20, 2018 7:55 PM

Well, at least Tracy Morgan was shunned and didn't have an army of defe-

Oh, wait...

by Anonymousreply 123December 20, 2018 7:56 PM

Thanks R121 - I thought you meant another community. Yikes. Anyhow, it seems like when a group wants to unify one faction and kick out another, the remaining faction also splits into two or more conflicting interests.

Imagine LGB kicking out the T, then the B, and when there’s only LG left (or GL, depending on who wins the “us first” battle) you can bet there will be the same irreconcilable differences that straight men and women have with each other. Cats and dogs.

by Anonymousreply 124December 20, 2018 8:04 PM

But the "we're all in this together" belief is held only by white gay men.

Again, go to Lipstick Alley if you don't believe that.

by Anonymousreply 125December 20, 2018 8:07 PM

Where do gays call out black homophobia?

by Anonymousreply 126December 20, 2018 8:09 PM

Any place safely away from angry Black people.

by Anonymousreply 127December 20, 2018 8:10 PM

Well there are a few of those around here.

by Anonymousreply 128December 20, 2018 8:12 PM

Exactly, R125. And, sometimes that is the case.

by Anonymousreply 129December 20, 2018 8:14 PM

It's sad when a comic says shit like this because they can't get an act together if they aren't allowed to insult at least one definitive group of people.

by Anonymousreply 130December 20, 2018 8:17 PM

He should shut up and hire a writer.

by Anonymousreply 131December 20, 2018 8:18 PM

[quote]The reason a lot of gays focus on calling out black homophobia is because black homophobia is directly in many of our backyards: urban environments ... Whites in our major cities are largely liberal and not at odds with us over gay rights issues.

What is r111 smoking? Black people don’t Donald Trump and Roy Moore. White people, including in places like Pennsylvania, Ohio, Michigan and Wisconsin do. Always try to blame blacks. Proposition 8 in California for example was passed by white evangelicals and Mormons, but blacks got blamed. A majority of white women voted for Trump, but blacks got blamed for not turning out for Hillary in Obama numbers. Kanye’s support for Trump is completely at odds with the black community. Trumpers like Chris Pratt and Kid Rock are representative of a solid MAJORITY of white people

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by Anonymousreply 132December 20, 2018 8:45 PM

Numbers speak for themselves. Majority of white people are homophobes AND racists.

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by Anonymousreply 133December 20, 2018 8:49 PM


by Anonymousreply 134December 20, 2018 8:49 PM

The problem is heterosexuals, not black, not white.

by Anonymousreply 135December 20, 2018 8:51 PM

Not every disagreement is bigotry. People have different values


by Anonymousreply 136December 20, 2018 8:55 PM

WTF are you doing here? It's so clear that you have nothing but contempt for gay men. Well this is a FUCKING GAY BOARD and always will be.

by Anonymousreply 137December 20, 2018 8:57 PM

Yeah, we get bullied growing up only to get bullied by our 'own' as adults.

by Anonymousreply 138December 20, 2018 9:00 PM

The Gay Community are bullies. You only have to come onto Datalounge to see this . I have been coming here for 20 years and the the things I have heard Gay people say about effeminate Gay people or women makes me blush.

People are bullied into silence here all the time.. You can’t take criticism., just read through the responses on this thread.

It is much easier for you to yell the words bigot , Russian bot , fascist than believe a Gay person has a different opinion than you. They must be a fascist or a troll if they think differently than the majority.

Notice how in threads like these no on really says anything different to the majority of posts. That is not because you are right or even that the majority believe in what you say . It is because people know what happens when someone dares to express an opinion different to the loudest voices . You yell fascist and troll and block.

I was bullied for years at school for being Gay and called a faggot nearly every day, I can tell a bully a mile away . The Gay Community can be bullies fact . Datalounge is full of bullies fact.

by Anonymousreply 139December 20, 2018 9:09 PM

I’m a young black bisexual man. I have no contempt for white gays. I just have different views than you r138. Your self-absorbed histrionics turns people against you. Chill.

by Anonymousreply 140December 20, 2018 9:09 PM

I meant r137

by Anonymousreply 141December 20, 2018 9:10 PM

R114: London is not the most homophobic place in the UK, not by a long shot. Chill the histrionics, Mary.

by Anonymousreply 142December 20, 2018 9:13 PM

Statistics say otherwise, r142

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by Anonymousreply 143December 20, 2018 9:15 PM

R143: London and the West Midlands are equivalent with the Northwest and Wales RIGHT behind. You're picking nits. Knock it off.

by Anonymousreply 144December 20, 2018 9:17 PM

Just fuck off to LSA, R140/R141.

by Anonymousreply 145December 20, 2018 9:20 PM

What a bunch of bullshit from r117, r121, and r122.

Most of the women on gen crit are lesbians and there are even a few of us gay men on there *gasp* But seeing the way that lesbian was kicked off the LGBT council in Baltimore thanks to the votes of two gay men, I can see why the gals at gen crit are salty.

I’m gonna guess you’re trans or just a plain ol’ misogynist. Your misinformation against our lesbian sisters inane wanted here.

by Anonymousreply 146December 20, 2018 9:21 PM


by Anonymousreply 147December 20, 2018 9:22 PM

R142 - Just pouring you some truth tea, honeybuns. My point was whites - IN URBAN CITIES NEAR GAYS. Not overall. Stop making excuses for overwhelming black homophobia.

And yes, blacks (and other inner city minorities) are responsible for the victory of Prop 8, as well as the gay marriage ban in states like Michigan. Michigan is an interesting example, because Wayne County (Black Detroit) voted FOR banning gay marriage. And when Michigan banned affirmative action, what county voted AGAINST banning that? Oh, Wayne county (Detroit again).

The only counties that voted against banning both measures both times? Ingham and Washtenaw: college towns and counties that are largely educated and white.

Stop making excuses for black homophobia. We know that rural/exurban/suburban whites are bigoted. Stop making excuses for black behavior with "but but but!"

by Anonymousreply 148December 20, 2018 9:23 PM

^^ sorry, that was for R132.

by Anonymousreply 149December 20, 2018 9:24 PM

I'm GLAD we turn off the black bisexuals, who promote down low culture that is a big factor of the spread of HIV in their communities. Never forget, it's ONE in TWO.

All for that thug baby daddy dick that they crave. Just fuck off, "Asspussy".

by Anonymousreply 150December 20, 2018 9:24 PM

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by Anonymousreply 151December 20, 2018 9:28 PM

R150 is Unhinged

by Anonymousreply 152December 20, 2018 9:30 PM

Yeah, because you're a piece of shit who thinks that 'stereotypical' gays deserve to get beat up by straight guys for making them "uncomfortable". A very Black mentality, don't you think?

by Anonymousreply 153December 20, 2018 9:32 PM

R146: Is there no thread you assholes won't hijack for your sick obsessions? Jesus Christ!

by Anonymousreply 154December 20, 2018 9:32 PM

No, you knock it off r144

Londoners are FIVE TIMES more likely to reject support for a gay child

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by Anonymousreply 155December 20, 2018 9:34 PM

Gay people are always stifled when they defend themselves. I see it going back to the 80s with Kinison, Dice Clay, Arsenio Hall—people siding with Kevin Hart or Hughley like R144 who’s taken his time to bash gays and use f-ggot in his post— is sad and unfortunate, but that’s something gays have always had to deal with. Now, if Hart or Hughley were politicians, that’s something entirely different. If gay people speak up against a homophobic black or Muslim politician, and they are told to fuck off and people side them—that’s disastrous for gay people. Those individuals legislate and I’m just bidding my time for newly elected Muslim Democrats to start legislating against gay people in some fashion, and there won’t be a thing gay people will do about it because 1, they don’t want to be accused of racism, and they will be like they are here, and 2, gays don’t have a lot of power against these groups, and they know it.

by Anonymousreply 156December 20, 2018 9:48 PM

That’s R139 not R144. Sorry R144!!

by Anonymousreply 157December 20, 2018 9:49 PM

Gay people in power also always side with the homophobes, or do nothing to prevent it.

by Anonymousreply 158December 20, 2018 9:58 PM

Sorry r158 are you actually saying I shouldn’t say as a Gay man I was bullied and called a faggot that triggers you , because I can tell a bully when I see one . Fuck off!!!

by Anonymousreply 159December 20, 2018 10:28 PM

D.L. Wholey? Does D.L. stand for on the down low?

by Anonymousreply 160December 20, 2018 10:42 PM

Alright that hypocritical poster is blocked. R 139 or whatever. He posts on Datalounge which bullies gay men day in and day out. No, you fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 161December 20, 2018 11:24 PM

R146 Either you're a straight frau or one of the sycophantic "good" gays that hang around and want to be abused by the gender crits. Most are NOT lesbians, stop spreading misinformation. Most gender crits are homophobic married straight women like Posie Parker. The lesbians have their own communities, have been doing the work for decades-- and know how crazy you gender crit trolls are. They fucking hate you too.

by Anonymousreply 162December 21, 2018 4:08 AM

These guys need social media agents. He contradicts himself, doesn’t acknowledge the irony and sounds, well, precious. Remember, KH quit. No one fired him

by Anonymousreply 163December 21, 2018 4:29 AM

No one makes excuses for the human cancer that is Roy Moore. But people are making excuses for the black community (and 'gen-cri).

Yes, we know Mormons and white women are problems.

But the black community ALSO has a huge homophobia problem.

by Anonymousreply 164December 21, 2018 5:34 AM

I wish we actually did something about homophobia. Like this.

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by Anonymousreply 165December 21, 2018 5:36 AM

Oh boy

by Anonymousreply 166December 21, 2018 4:03 PM

^ Go get HIV from a down low brotha.

by Anonymousreply 167December 21, 2018 4:08 PM

You’re vile r168. Watch yourself.

by Anonymousreply 168December 21, 2018 4:15 PM

And proud of it, cunt. What are you gonna do about it?

by Anonymousreply 169December 21, 2018 4:16 PM

F&F this homophobe out of here.

by Anonymousreply 170December 21, 2018 4:40 PM

F&F, R150.

by Anonymousreply 171December 21, 2018 10:48 PM

W&W, R150.

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